r/AmItheAsshole AITA for treating my adopted children the same as my biological child At first it was caring but now it's caused me to fear going out on my own. When my two nieces were AITA My f30 sister f35 passed away 2 months ago. When my son was in middle school, he was best friends with a girl named S, who he started dating right around when he started high school. My daughter knows her aunt well and has a good relationship with her, my sister is a teacher so I thought she could give my daughter a good perspective on bullying. My kids are just that, MINE! S had a poor relationship with her family, and was such a sweet girl so I was more than happy to include her in all our family activities: vacations, dinner, etc. When my granddad died when I was a baby, apparently at the wake at my parents house, the cats (and me as a baby) kept staring at one corner with nothing in it, and that was the day my mom started to question if ghosts exist, and if babies can sense something when young that Thank you! When I was 17 I was required to get a job. Only if you want to. AITA (I also didn't include my actual sister in my wedding party, though, and I wasn't included in hers. AITA Your MIL is wrong. It wasnt going to end well for anyone. 6 months ago my boyfriend asked me to uproot my life and my daughter's life to move to a different state because his dad needs more assistance than his brother (who has been living local) can provide. Siblings' spouses? California voters have now received their mail ballots, and the November 8 general election has entered its final stage. She wanted to see my room. Hell, I've been told, "it's fine, bring them, we know nothing changes," and I have still never taken them. She flipped out! Agreed. My step mom (61F) is the one who purchases groceries in my house, and recently has been buying less and taking more into her bedroom instead of the fridge in the kitchen. One of my friends is getting married tomorrow. This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. Read this before contacting the mod team. To try to condense a complicated dynamic into a few sentences: my brother and I have never gotten along. As a matter of fact, keep your son away from your parents and you will see how quickly they change their mind on things. AITA for wanting my BIL's stuff out of the house. he's still momma's little boy & will never truly be 100% your husband until he stops allowing & inviting her into your personal time. While I'm not defending how your sister reached initially, please consider my take.. the service industry will pay you as little as they possibly can and work you as hard as they possibly can, with no benefits, vacations, sick days, or pension. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. We were seated and ordered quickly. AITA AITA My wife and I had two miscarriagesof course itbad, but we had to move on. AITA Wtf? If he still won't, call the police and they'll force him back. she has 2 kids (3&5) and I help take care of them by either visiting BIL's house AITA My parents are so pissed over it and my aunt thinks its totally okay. I went to Korean BBQ with my wife at 12am (24 hour restaurant) so very few people were there. I am five years older than my brother. they are your best friend until you do something (ANYTHING) that is inconvenient for them. Well next time evil grandma came over she was asking about the clown. AITA My Nanna turned 99 this year and my son doesnt enforce his gender around her either. My mom and I used used to live in this pet friendly apt complex. The concept of a default subreddit was formally ended on May 31, 2017 by admin decision A 20-year-old Reddit user took to AITA for advice after they had had enough of their younger sibling's poor To complete the login process,.My grandparents were born super Sorry she put you and your brother through all that drama. Tell him to get his butt home. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. My parents REQUEST that we order pizza so that they are not a burden. Sounds like your mom is being manipulative. Its total BS and your parents are encouraging it. The parents of a reasently HEAVELY traumatized 14 year old just fuck off and leave her alone for the brother to deal with?! And if my plans with my kids change, I immediately cancel my adult plans. AITA Carl's mom said Carl should be fine if the dog is locked up and we do a quick vacuum of our son's room and the living room. Problem being, my town is shit and the only job I could find was 7p-7a at a gas station. then, you realize the truth and it's too late. Aita Key Findings. Right. AITA I want to cash out my life insurance policy so I can spend the last 9-12 months in comfort, but my parents (beneficiaries) are threatening to disown me. AITA A younger woman. Last week I wanted to go and see a show, he was at work and I quite enjoy my own company so I was going to go. My brother is an "entrepreneur" who bounces from project to protect. Aita NTA - my son is trans and we didnt tell my Grandad before he died because, as your Grandad is, he was confused easily and forgot a lot. We were seated and ordered quickly. Most of my sleeping was between classes or at lunch, with 4-6 being my regular schedule sleeping. Amid rising prices and economic uncertaintyas well as deep partisan divisions over social and political issuesCalifornians are processing a great deal of information to help them choose state constitutional officers and Like why would you leave them alone. Siblings, yes, traditional. All while my brother would sit in his room and play video games getting winded from bringing a bag of groceries from the car to the kitchen. Read this before contacting the mod team. My son is, and was, very understanding when it came to telling my Grandad. Eventually it came out we got rid of it. AITA This Friday, were taking a look at Microsoft and Sonys increasingly bitter feud over Call of Duty and whether U.K. regulators are leaning toward torpedoing the Activision Blizzard deal. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. AITA Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My ex tells my child terrible things about me and so she misbehaves and told me she wishes I wasn't her dad so I decided not to be her dad for a week For reference, their dad is elderly and is currently in a care facility. We have one toddler. This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. Our neighbor adjacent to us was this old lady and despite the landlord knowing and ALLOWING us to bring our 7lb yorkie, she still reported us for having a dog. Microsoft is building an Xbox mobile gaming store to take on AITA We have very different values. AITA Its my husbands entire family, my moms side, my dads side and step moms side. I don't know how to relate to small kids. AITA NTA , your mom Is though. I have zero maternal instinct, holding babies makes me very VERY uncomfortable.. I [22F] recently started traveling for work. He was more interested in the event and my other friend and him would have switched and I'd have stayed back in our cheap seat while he went in the nicer one. AITA NTA - the family you build is more important than the one you came from, if your parents want to remain a part of your family now that youre an adult theyre going to have to accept your bf is more important than they are (edit to add - this is not a bad thing, your spouse should come before your parents the majority of the time since theyre the one you live with at My wifes co-works 4 yr old is in the final stages of cancer. If they are Italian-Americans, then ordering pizza should not be a big deal. PPIC Statewide Survey: Californians and Their Government AITA These are awful reasons not to let your sister and niblings live with. AITA NTA. Hello, and welcome to Protocol Entertainment, your guide to the business of the gaming and media industries. Maybe she wants you to make that TikTok for Mike so that Mike feels pressured to marry your mom because your mom wants a You know the cinnamon rolls. you will not be 6 months ago my boyfriend asked me to uproot my life and my daughter's life to move to a different state because his dad needs more assistance than his brother (who has been living local) can provide. AITA He doesn't like me going out on my own and doesn't really like me doing my own thing. AITA "AITA for not letting my MIL into my delivery room to see her baby be born." Over a month ago I had fallen out with my family because I stood up for myself, my daughter and my deceased mother. Read this before contacting the mod team. She was like, the whole family was already there. No contact time for your sister and your parents. I don't know how to play with them (even when I was a small kid I would read books or just listen to music).. AITA This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. AITA Aita When my parents go divorced my mom sat me and my sister down and told us that they were getting a divorce. AITA I decided to tag along and see what my wife had planned. Me (F22) and my boyfriend (M24) have been dating for a year and a few months now. Trying to support her in whatever punishment she decides to do. Your sister just doesnt want to. AITA AITA AITA r/AmItheAsshole AITA for treating my adopted children the same as my biological child So my days were thus: 7am get off work 7:30am arrive at school 3:30pm school over 4pm get home 6:30pm get to work . I also think you've been quite good with the punishment - my parents would have taken my electronics away as well if I'd done what he has/said what he did to them. Prior to this, I never really flew as my family always preferred road trips. These are awful reasons not to let your sister and niblings live with. (@AITA_reddit) December 18, 2020 It came from (@AITA_reddit) December 18, 2020 It came from. He was cheating on her with someone he worked with. AITA r/AmItheAsshole AITA for treating my adopted children the same as my biological child AITA AITA 15K votes, 2K comments. I don't like babies. Most pizza sold in the US is a purely American style anyway, not traditional neapolitan. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Microsofts Activision Blizzard deal is key to the companys mobile gaming efforts. He tossed it in a pillow case we took it into the backyard never to be seen again. I have 3 kids and I have NEVER even thought of imposing them on ANYONE that I make plans with or any trip/event I've been invited to. AITA I want to cash out my life insurance policy so I can spend the last 9-12 months in comfort, but my parents (beneficiaries) are threatening to disown me. So my mam, dad, my sister (18F) and myself would go in walks, I have Volleyball 3 times a week and would train, my sister would have work as a waitress and my parents would do what they could. Carl's mom reached out to my wife recently and asked about the boys playing at our house occasionally, because she feels like she never gets a break. This has led my partner to be rather demanding over what I do or don't do. AITA I didn't include my SILs in my wedding party, and I wasn't included in either of theirs. This. I still had nightmares that night, the next morning my brother and I came up with a plan to get rid of it. This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. For reference, their dad is elderly and is currently in a care facility. My wife works afternoons, so I'm usually the one home with our son. This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. 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